A basic Google search shows you're part of groups that oppose gay marriage and seemingly support "religious freedom" bills. Have you published that research in a peer-reviewed journal? Mollies Urnings. The development of powerful sexual attraction for my wife was quite sudden and unexpected. Journal of Higher Education. Marriages, Families, and Relationships:
Dan gave a recent anecdote that sheds light on a complicated issue:
Thinking Feminist, Thinking Black. Main article: In a book that integrates "the academic disciplines of cinema studies, sociology, cultural and critical studies" regarding the Big Brother phenomena, non-heterosexual was used as a universal term to help compare information from over thirty countries. The bottom line is that there is an incredible range of human sexuality, and we are increasingly recognizing myriad ways to negotiate the sometimes confusing pathways our urges put us on.
I realized my desire was less sexual than immature and shallow.